If
you have suffered the loss of a loved pet, then may I offer you my deepest condolences.
My name is
Taryn Bock and I am
the creator and owner of
Angel Pet
Cremation.
Being a pet funeral celebrant I meet pet owners who are suffering the tragic loss of a
much loved pet, fur-baby, companion, fur-friend, best buddy and very special
member of their family.
While my job is very sad, it's also very rewarding in providing a
beautiful farewell and treasured last memories for many pet owners.
As part of our service, we personally deliver loved pets ashes back to their
owner
and this is where we have the opportunity to chat to our clients
about
their feelings of grief and how they are coping.
While many pet owners cope well, a few have a real struggle and this is why
I created this page in the hope it offers some help and support to not only
our clients but anyone
who has suffered the loss of a loved pet.
Some time ago I came across a gorgeous little movie made by a
lovely lady called Terri who gave me permission to share her movie with
you all.
I strongly suggest you have a box of tissues ready before you watch it,
as it really
does pull on your heart strings in the most lovely way.
Please click on the link below
http://indigo.org/rainbow/
During my research into pet loss I had the very good fortune to speak with
World Renowned Pet Communicator and Grief Facilitator - Pamela Adams
and together we conducted a number of pet loss support groups in Melbourne.
Please click on Pam's banner below to read about her services and to contact her.
After drawing inspiration from a large number
of pet owners, I
put pen to paper and wrote a a number of poems, two of which
I would like to share with you below.
written by Taryn Bock
© copyright 2006
This wasn't supposed to happen
it all just seems a blur
I'm sure I can still hear you
walking around and smell your fur.
I miss not seeing the love
each time I looked in your eyes
You were always happy to see me
spending your life right by my side.
I now lay awake at night
listening for a sign you are here
a smell, a sound, just anything
to bring your spirit near.
This grief has got a hold of me
It's so hard to explain
How my heart feels so very crushed
I'm not sure if I can bear the pain.
Each day is supposed to bring new light
for a much brighter tomorrow
but my thoughts are so consumed by you
my world is full of sorrow.
Some say you were just a pet
this will never sit right with me
for you were more than just a pet
you were my guardian, my friend
you were my fur baby.
As your grieving parent
I tie this yellow ribbon around this tree
it's the one you used to lay under
and stretch out lazily
I know each time I look at it
I'll be consumed by the memory
that you brought me so much joy
and you loved me unconditionally
Forever in my heart
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written by Taryn Bock
© copyright 2006
While
you travel along the path of life
You were very lucky, in every way
To have met your beloved pet
Who loved you so much, every single day
In fact, when
you first met your pet,
did you ever realize
just how much they would mean to you
and really touch your lives.
Our beautiful
pets, mean so much to us
they never grumble, and they never fuss
they never whinge, and although some do whine
they just want your attention, most of the time
They are our
fur
babies, forever more
our devoted companions, who we adore
we protect and try to look after them,
just like you should, for your very best friend.
Our
pets are so precious to us,
With a bond and love we can't explain,
They are the ones who understand us
And are there through all the joys in life
as well as through the pain.
A pet’s love has no boundaries.
So, even though you might be apart.
Their love and spirit will stay with you
You can feel it, a gentle warmth inside
your heart.
This feeling is love and it becomes a
passageway,
And while the days become months,
and the months become years
It will never ever go away.
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If you require immediate help you may find the following organizations
helpful:-
LIFE LINE 13 11 14 (Australia Wide)
CRISIS LINE 03 - 9329 0300
or speak with your Friends, Doctor, Veterinarian or Spiritual Group
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